READ THIS VERY SLOWLY..... IT'S PRETTY
PROFOUND.
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they
haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it
was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about
going to lunch in a half hour? " She would gasp and stammer, "I can't. I have
clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday. I had a
late breakfast. It looks like rain." And my personal favorite: "It's Monday."
She died a few years ago.
We never did have lunch together.
Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our
headaches.
We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves
when all the conditions are perfect!
We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Stevie toilet-trained.
We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet.
We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two
more kids out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older.
The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer.
One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of
"I'm going to", "I plan on" , and "Someday, when things are settled down a bit."
When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend,
she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new
ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five
minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and
skip an elevator for a bungee cord.
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It's just that
I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the
digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-decker.
If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.
Now...go on and have a nice day! Do something
you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list.
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who
would you call and what would you say? And
why are you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this to you.
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain
lapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading
night?
Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask "How are you?" Do you hear
the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next
hundred chores running through your head?
Ever told your child, "We'll do it tomorrow." And in your haste, not see his
sorrow?
Ever lost touch?
Let a good friendship die?
Just call to say "Hi"? When you worry and hurry through
your day, It is like an unopened gift....Thrown away...
Life is not a race. Take it slower.
Hear the music before the song is over.
It's National Friendship Week. Show your
friends how much you care.
Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
If it comes back to you, then you'll know you
have a circle of friends.
Thanks for being my friend.